todd kincannon , 33 , has been arrested and charged with criminal domestic violence following .
a columbia attorney and former executive director of the south carolina republican party has been arrested and charged with criminal domestic violence following an incident involving his wife last month .
an arrest warrant alleges that kincannon 's wife ashely griffith , told police kincannon threatened to kill her , himself and her family during the incident .
in one clip kincannon tells griffith he will have his ` revenge ' if she leaves him .